so ive got to write about sex, doing it, makin out, getting it on.

I want to.

Both write and get it on. However, I doubt that I can successfully simultaneously.

what specifically though? cross cultural gettin it on? the normal gringo get down? just makin out? just flirting? what i like best about getting? how to tell someone to do it to me in spanish.

and the rain is beating down so hard outside right now. what a crazy fucking time. i am not going anywhere until that rain lets up.

or about who id like to do it with? that is always a fun topic...

sex.

is communication. an expression of our wants with or without speaking. it is the most honest way to communicate with someone you care about. for me, thats why i love sex, because i am a communicator, a talker, the kind of person who approaches strangers and asks for things, the kind of boi who loves talking and sharing and expressing myself with others, with strangers or familiar lovers so that i/we may find that needed connection, so that we may touch upon the reason we started this conversation. the reason we began this back and forth, this dance of our bodies, we didnt start fucking to fall asleep, we started fucking to talk to each other, to communicate to express what we each are holding on the inside.

i havent had sex since january 4th of this year, yeah i know. its given me time to think and masturbate, making me realize what an amazing source of communication and power good sex is and also making me realize how much i miss it, and what a grumpy bastard i can be without it. its also given me time to realize what an amazing partner i have. she is an amazing communicator, before, during, and after sex, without her, sometimes i wouldnt have anyone to talk to.

but i dont want to get mushy. good sex is about screaming or being silent, good sex has ass smacking invovled or ass kissing, or toe kissing, or miles of kisses slowly planted from top to bottom of your lovers body. or there is no talking at all, just grunts and moans and deep breathing in time to the motion of your hips. sometimes good sex will leave you with rug burns or bruises, ones you are proud to show off, or ones that you hide if you lean towards the demure side of life.

all this talk of sex is just making me horny.

but sex, sexual satisfaction has no rule set, you do what makes you satisfied, you do what makes you comfortable, you push and decide your limits, you articulate your boundaries, a must in any sexual act and you communicate your needs, dont hold back! this is sex, not essay writing not cricket or polo. you are communicating, you are fucking, not sleeping! be passionate, be disgusting, be honest, ask your partner for the night or for life to do something to you, you´ve always dreamed of. or ask them what they want you to do them tonight.

dont be scared.